Beneath the Misses, Beyond the Mess: My Way Back to Me

A healing and love blog series

In trying to heal, I tripped over something else.

Not grief. Not regret.

Love.

Soft and stubborn — still lingering in the quiet corners of my story, sometimes wearing the face of someone else, sometimes echoing back as my own.

This is a series about what I’ve carried, what I’ve released, and what I’m still learning to hold gently — especially when that something is me.

Each post in this journey will go live gradually, one after the other — like unfolding pages from a story I once kept tucked away. I invite you to come back as they’re released. I don’t promise resolution. But I do promise honesty.

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🟢 HEALING SERIES

1. Healed but still Healing: The Journey

The 3AM confession that started it all — raw, restless, and unraveling in the dark.

2. It’s 3AM Again — But I’m Not the Same Anymore

A return to the hour that once broke me. This time, steadier. Softer. Still healing.

3. Interlude: The Ache Between Duty and Desire

Where love, loss, and choice collide.

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❤️ LOVE SERIES: 

1. Love as a Detour I Meant to Avoid — and the Regret of Getting Off Too Soon

I never planned to stay. But part of me still wonders what might’ve bloomed if I did.

2. Did I Choose Survival or Did I Just Settle?

What if choosing responsibility came at the cost of myself?

3. Is There Still Room for Love After All This?

Where healing holds the door ajar, wondering if love might ever knock again.

4. Loving Me, After Her

For the girl who gave her all, even when love couldn’t stay — and the quiet return to herself.

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In this series, the mess starts here.

✨ Start with the first post: Healed but still Healing: The Journey

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